Sunday, August 5, 2007

SUNDAY

Sunday is a good day of the week . Just like most of the people I get some time where I can pay attention to my personal life.

I can go shopping in a relaxed mood. I can see some of my friends , I can relax at home organize my personal life get ready for the next week lots of choices to have my time.

Am I able to do any of those things . No because there is no time on Sunday. Wake up late to re cooperate after 6 days of overworked days and then the day flies by by doing things that have to be done before I think of my own time and my own personal agenda.

What a life. Why can't I live my own life,do things for myself and doing what I want to do as a person.
I go to work make money and then in the little time left make food eat and so something very important and the day is over.
This is like living for money not living my own life. So Where is my life and when can I live it?
Will there be a day when I can live my life , for which I came in this world or may be I was brought in this world.
Come to think of it even my life is not mine also because I was born because two people wanted to have a child in their life.
So, what am I all about nothing. I am nothing but an object, born in this world to have a child by my parents and from the time I was born I am living for other people and doing what people around me want me to do.
Do I want a life like this when I have no control on it I only do what is expected of my.
No Freedom here. I belong to the most Free country in the world and even my life depends on so many other things and I cannot do any thing that I want to do.
How does the reader feel about it. Please write your comments. I want to know your opinion about this.

Wednesday, August 1, 2007

parenting

From the desk of a blogger

Wednesday: August 1,



Parenting is one of the hardest jobs that most of us face in our lives. There are different theories of parenting and different styles. Some just use there sudden decisions for parenting.

This subject is not taught as a subject in schools colleges or universities. So, I gathered it has to be a natural skill, comes naturally and just like everything else some excel in parenting and create happy emotionally balanced career oriented children and others not.



Today world is changing a lot and specially Americans are working to excel their life style by working harder than before. They like to have bigger houses bigger cars and every day luxuries of life to make life easier for them. All these goals become much easier if they have a stable and planned life from the very beginning and if they did what is necessary to have an outstanding attitude. That is where parenting becomes important.

From the very first step of life, conception until a child is an adult it is the responsibility of a parent to take care of the child. their health well being, their mental and emotional life , their education and day to day needs all are the responsibility of a parent.

How are we doing this job. Are our children generally satisfied with the king of upbringing we give them. Are our children able to accomplish what they want later based on parents up bringing. How many children are able to have both father and mother in their lives to be loved and cared for? How many children are making ends meet with least supervision?
What should we do to improve parenting and make coming generation better than any body else in the world.

These are going to be my topics in future. Every one may read and comment their opinion as
your opinion counts most. It will give me an idea where do we exist as a nation.